Wedding dress guest for every dress code and season 2024

By Bryan Katz, EditorMarch 11, 20245 Mins Read

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Well, you were invited to a Marriage. The dress code is set and you have no idea where to start, but that's okay — we've all been there. Luckily for you, Rolling Stone editors are here to help.

The first step in deciding what to wear to their big event is to determine it dress code, locationand time. Note — When deciding on color, it's important to consider the location (both geographically and whether the event will be held indoors or outdoors) and the overall “theme” of the wedding.

Typically, guests can provide input from invitations, wedding websites, what the groomsmen or bridesmaids are wearing, the venue, or even the couple's interests. If you're still completely stumped, it never hurts to consult the couple directly, but below we've rounded up an extensive list of elegant dresses available to buy online for every dress code, temperature and wedding theme. Just don't forget to bring a wedding gift!

What to wear in a white tie Marriage

Whit tie is a much less commonly requested garment for most modern weddings, this dress code calls for what you would imagine being worn to a royal wedding or diplomatic affair. Tuxedos are mandatory and are expected to include tails and a vest and must be accompanied by formal shoes, white or gray gloves, a bow tie and a formal shirt. Dresses should be floor-length dresses that are elegantly accessorized with jewelry to go with the clutch. A shawl or dress jacket is an optional combination for formal dresses in colder weather.

Spring

Anthropology

BHLDN Ruby Twist Halter Satin Dress

Halston Ginnie Mock-Neck Rosette Gown

Summer

BHLDN Blake Square Neck Crepe Dress

Sachin & Babi Stretch Satin Strapless Maxi Dress with Side Slit

Fall

BHLDN Ruby Twist Halter Satin Dress

Hutch Nalina Strapless Tulle Maxi Dress

Winter

Gaia Freya cult dress

Reformation Oren silk dress

What to wear to a black tie wedding

Black tie is a step below White tie in that tuxedos do not require tails or gloves and are interchangeable White tie vest for curtains. Dress attire remains relatively the same, however, a jacket or shawl is not necessary and less formal fabrics such as silk or linen are acceptable as long as the ankles remain covered. Shorter dresses (ankle-length, midi and cocktail) can be acceptable if placed in more structured fabrics. If you are not sure, it is best to consult with the bride before making a final decision about the outfit.

What to wear to a casual/formal black tie wedding

Black tie optional or formal it's another step towards more casual dressing than the previous one Black tie. For a suit, no tuxedos are required, however, a formal dark suit with a white shirt paired with a tie or bow tie is essential. Dresses can be replaced with trousers, formal suits, long dresses above the ankles or structured cocktail dresses in formal fabrics. These are very minor differences between the required dress attire White tie, Black tie and Formal or Black Tie Optional Dress codes, so if you're not sure if your dress is acceptable, we recommend consulting the bride for a gut check.